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How to get most out of Coaching
It is our commitment
that you benefit greatly from the time we have together each
week and also during the time in between our calls.
This brief introduction outlines how most of our clients maximize
the value from their coaching with us.
Make a List
Keep Focused
Get to Know Yourself
Double Your Level of Willingness
Come to the Coaching Call Prepared
Enjoy Your Call
Keep Yourself Well
Do Your Homework
Make a List of What You Really Want
in Life
Coaching works best when you have clear goals which are based
on your needs and values. In your start up kit is a list of
popular goals and a form on which to list these. If you’re
not sure what your goals should be, we can discuss them during
your call.
Keep Focused on a Foundation
of Integrity
A strong foundation of integrity is an essential element in
successful coaching. If you haven’t yet, start handling
at least one item per week related to your personal integrity.
Keep your coach posted on your current progress.
Get to Know Yourself
Newly
Working with a challenging coach is a powerful, healthy way
to grow. Most clients hire a coach to accomplish several specific
goals and much of the time and focus is on these goals. Yet,
with coaching, it is common to discover new parts of yourself
or find your goals adjusting to who you really are. This is
natural, so you needn’t rush it, just realize it will
likely happen. Accelerated personal and professional growth
is the hallmark of being coached.
Get to know yourself more by completing all client forms we
send you from time to time. These pinpoint who you are, what
you’re up to, what you need and what really fulfills
you.
Double your Level of Willingness
Part of working with your coach is that
he/she will ask a lot of you. Not more than you are capable
of, but certainly more than you may have been asked recently.
Your coach needs you to be willing to experiment with fresh
approaches and be open to redesign the parts of your life
that you are able to right now. This, so you can more easily
reach your goals and live an integrated, fulfilled, and balanced
personal and professional life, and enjoy your life as it
was meant to be enjoyed.
- Here are some of things we need you to be willing to do:
- Experiment and try new things
- Remove all sources of stress in your life
- Redesign how you spend your time
- Set goals that are much, much bigger
- Start telling the absolute truth, regardless
- Eradicate all triggers of adrenaline
- Get the support you need to handle a problem
- Raise your personal standards to be high
- Stop tolerating or suffering about your life
Come to the Coaching Call Prepared, with
an Agenda or List.
We have 30 minutes together and you’ll need to have
a written list of things for you to share and us to discuss.
Having this agenda helps
you get what you want from the call. On this list, include
things like:
- Successes and wins that you have had during the week
- Problems you faced and how you handled them
- What you’re currently working on and how it’s
going
- New awareness, insights, and “aha’s”
which excite you
- Report on the homework
- A situation you are experiencing
- New skills you want to develop
- Strategies you wish to develop
Enjoy Your Call
We have work to do together, clearly, but
enjoy the call with me. After several sessions, you may find
that we take a little time to catch up on other parts of your
life that mean a lot to you or you may want to share something
personal and confidential. You may even find that we laugh
during the call - at life, how you’ve grown, how things
happen.
Keep Yourself Well
Between Our Sessions
Coaching can require energy: emotional, intellectual, and
physical. Given this, it is important for you to take extraordinary
care of your well-being while being coached. Only you know
what this looks like, but I suggest you go much further than
you ever have in this regard. The place to start is to develop
a list of 10-15 habits you will do daily which keep you well.
Some of the habits you can develop into a routine are:
- Walk/Exercise
- Reduce fat intake
- Read
- Listen to great music
- Handle an incompletion
- Eat more vegetables
- Meditate
- Schedule massages/facials
- Take vitamins
- No caffeine, no drugs
- Start being early
- No sugar abuse
- Floss
Do your Homework Each Week
This is not homework like in grade school. These are tasks,
actions, results or changes you are telling yourself and your
coach that you will complete before our next call. You must
apply yourself and use the homework to help you achieve your
personal and business goals.
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